In a subject like misbehaving in public there is a lot to observe more than to dare to say. I was reading an article called Are you a Misbehaving Parent?. It is talking about how parent misbehave with their children in public resturant, that is a place in which the familly should gather and relax. But the fact is it is the opposit, it is a place to fill your physical needs of being hungry for those kind of parents.
However, I do work in a resturant and I felt what this writer mean by talking about those parents, in my opinion, those parents who think for a momoent they do own their kids. I would tell those parent no one own his kids, but our obligation in this life toward our kids is to raise them in a nice and good way, also to prepare them to grow in good manners too.
For example one day I was serving a familly of one father with one doughter maybe she is 6 years old, with son maybe 8 years old and another son maybe 13 years old. However, the dad was in a hearry I was not and I was so patient because I saw the dad under some stress, the dad welling not to delay the line behind him so what he did worse than delaying the line he pull his son of 13 years old ear and screem "can not see me busy with your brother help me and order to your sister, can't you understand". Here the boy's face turned red and I got that time a lot of bad emotions, maybe symbathy to this young gentelman, maybe angry from this father. It took me soconed what to do at least to solve this problem for this 13 years old, immediatly I talk to the father that my freind can help you and I will help your son. So I started in purpose using a very proffessional wards showing too much respect to him and I asked him very gently "Sir, take your time I am not in a harry, what can I get for you" He looked at me as wonderring is she is talking to me? Is she telling me Sir? I took my time to serve him in a very good way and tried to jock with him showing him I am not in a harry. That day has gone. But the picture still stick in my mind every time I see these things infront of me.
For myself I am thinking as a future teacher I am going to work hard to build behave people. Because I do beleive of the power of education to solve some of our society problems. Those problems that no one can solve just because they are parents.
For those who is interested please visit the following site to read more about Are You a Mibehaving Parent? And I ask everybody to think for a moment what we do else as adults with misbehaving sometime?
http://johnplaceonline.com/relationships/are-you-a-misbehaving-parent/
However, I do work in a resturant and I felt what this writer mean by talking about those parents, in my opinion, those parents who think for a momoent they do own their kids. I would tell those parent no one own his kids, but our obligation in this life toward our kids is to raise them in a nice and good way, also to prepare them to grow in good manners too.
For example one day I was serving a familly of one father with one doughter maybe she is 6 years old, with son maybe 8 years old and another son maybe 13 years old. However, the dad was in a hearry I was not and I was so patient because I saw the dad under some stress, the dad welling not to delay the line behind him so what he did worse than delaying the line he pull his son of 13 years old ear and screem "can not see me busy with your brother help me and order to your sister, can't you understand". Here the boy's face turned red and I got that time a lot of bad emotions, maybe symbathy to this young gentelman, maybe angry from this father. It took me soconed what to do at least to solve this problem for this 13 years old, immediatly I talk to the father that my freind can help you and I will help your son. So I started in purpose using a very proffessional wards showing too much respect to him and I asked him very gently "Sir, take your time I am not in a harry, what can I get for you" He looked at me as wonderring is she is talking to me? Is she telling me Sir? I took my time to serve him in a very good way and tried to jock with him showing him I am not in a harry. That day has gone. But the picture still stick in my mind every time I see these things infront of me.
For myself I am thinking as a future teacher I am going to work hard to build behave people. Because I do beleive of the power of education to solve some of our society problems. Those problems that no one can solve just because they are parents.
For those who is interested please visit the following site to read more about Are You a Mibehaving Parent? And I ask everybody to think for a moment what we do else as adults with misbehaving sometime?
http://johnplaceonline.com/relationships/are-you-a-misbehaving-parent/
